Marry Me
Marry Me is a year-long personal experiment hosted by Daisy Chakoo, who sets out to find a husband within 12 months. Across 52 weekly episodes, she explores marriage and partnership in the modern age while sharing the highs and lows of her own search. The podcast is designed to end on 3 September 2025, and listeners can follow the journey on Instagram @DaisyChakoo.
Episodes
51. Everything I Learned in 365 Days of Trying to Find My Husband - Part 2
Lessons on lessons learned from this year-long quest t0 find my husband.We're back for part 2 of the 12 lessons I learned in the past 12 months. If you missed the part 1, go and check it out before you listen to this one.AH, I can't believe this is the penultimate episode of the whole podcast. I'll save the goo-goo-gah-gah emotions for the next/final episode.Love you xSpoiler alert: Being
50. Everything I Learned in 365 Days of Trying to Find My Husband - Part 1
It's been one hell of a year, but we did it! Like... it's actually done. AH!So, it's only right to take some time to reflect and review the biggest lessons that I've learnt from this past year! 12 lessons in 12 months.(This is part 1 where we're reviewing the first 6 lessons. Part 2 is next episode.)Spoiler alert: Adam Driver has taught me a lot. Week 50 of 52, complete!Thanks for listeni
49. Marry Me in the City: Carrie Bradshaw's Relationships- Final Part 3 (ft. Penelope)
We're back at it again with OUR FINAL CARRIE BRADSHAW HATERATION EPISODE... I mean... Marry Me in the City episode.These are the episodes where we use the iconic Sex and the City TV show as a springboard to explore modern themes of love, sex, relationships, and dating.This week, we are joined by our recurring guest, Penelope, my lil sister, to discuss and rate three of Carrie's iconic rel
48. Marry Me: Progress Report- August
AHHH!!! This is the last ever Marry Me Progress Report!!!!!!!!!!!!!Spoiler alert: I haven't found a husband. Week 48 of 52, complete!Thanks for listening! xHost & Producer: Daisy ChakooOriginal Music: Daisy ChakooInstagram: @DaisyChakooA Mantaa Media Production ©Patreon- patreon.com/DaisyChakooYouTube- https://youtube.com/@daisychakoo
47. To mother, or not to mother
This is basically live taping of me spiralling and unspiralling about whether or not I wanna be a Charlotte (become a mother and wife) or be a Samatha (live my life to the fullest without any expectations of becoming a mother or wife).This is definitely one of my most favourite episodes as it really captured this new era of life I am in... and it's all thanks to you... my virtual-parasoci
46. The Quickest Breakup in History
I was seeing someone and now I'm not. I tell you all about it and how it's led me to being a proud member of the Vasectomy Warrior Association (VWA).Spoiler alert: I'm actually alright. Week 46 of 52, complete!Thanks for listening! xHost & Producer: Daisy ChakooOriginal Music: Daisy ChakooInstagram: @DaisyChakooA Mantaa Media Production ©Patreon- patreon.com/DaisyChakooYouTube- https:
45. Hi, My Name is Daisy Chakoo and I'm a Wannabe TRADWIFE
I've had a sneaky suspicion for a while that I'm a secret tradwife... so today is the day we find out.In this episode, I take a TRADWIFE QUIZ (link below) to get to the bottom of this, once and for all. We then discuss what my expectations of being a wife are, for myself. Spoiler alert: It's giving Lily van der Woodsen meets Sophia Amoruso.Week 45 of 52, complete!Thanks for listening! xHo
44. Marry Me: Progress Report- July
It's time for Marry Me: Progress Report, July edition! This is our monthly series (first Wednesday of every month) where I'll be answering the same 10 questions to keep track of how the experiment is going. If you haven't already, have a listen to the previous Progress Report episodes to keep up.Spoiler alert: If I like you, I'll wanna put my tongue in your ear... don't kink shame me, o
43. LIFE IS CHANGING!
I've been living a secret life, undercover, along the western coast of the Iberian Peninsula... But all of that is changing.And we hope for the better... please Baby Jesus. Spoiler alert: Keir Starmer and I bout to go together, real bad.Week 43 of 52, complete!Thanks for listening! xHost & Producer: Daisy ChakooOriginal Music: Daisy ChakooInstagram: @DaisyChakooA Mantaa Media Producti
42. My Last "First Date"
How mad is it that one day, I'll have my last ever "first date"... and maybe I already have? HeheWe talk about this as well as how my approach to first dates has changed over the years and my favourite first dates (I offer an honorary "first date" that got me all hot and flustered hehe). Spoiler alert: Quarantine + Hatred + Red Wine = A night to remember. I highly recommend. Week 42 of 52
41. HBO, LISTEN, AND LISTEN GOOD - Marry Me in the City
urrrrrrrrggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh "MICHAEL PATRICK STAR", Prime Ministers of HBO, Magistrates Courts of Hollywood... how did we get here?It's not too late to stop this train before it falls off the cliff competely... just end the suffering, NOW! PLEASE!Marry Me in the City - These are the episodes where we use the iconic Sex and the City TV show as a springboard to explore modern themes of
40. Marry Me: Progress Report- June
It's time for Marry Me: Progress Report, June edition! This is our monthly series (first Wednesday of every month) where I'll be answering the same 10 questions to keep track of how the experiment is going. If you haven't already, have a listen to the previous Progress Report episodes to keep up.Spoiler alert: Ciara is a big inspiration in my life right now... #CiaraEraWeek 40 of 52, co
39. "If you wanna ruin your life, yes, have the threesome" - Marry Me Therapy
Look... I just felt like celebrating the sunshine by revelling in other "people's" problems... I'm human and I'm trash sometimes, forgive me. So... here's to another episode of MARRY ME THERAPY! The episodes where I answer "your" dilemmas... shock horror, another podcast answering dilemmas.If you want to take part in this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, send your dilemmas to marrymepod@gm
38. An Ode to Black Love
Knock knock... Who's there? Eliza... Eliza who... Eliza Thornberry, back at it again with an episode in the wild.This time... in my favourite park... talking all things Black Love!As we mature, we're realising what matters more and more in a romantic partnership.Spoiler alert: Skepta. Week 38 of 52, complete!Thanks for listening! xHost & Producer: Daisy ChakooOriginal Music: Daisy Cha
37. Marry Me: Progress Report- May
It's time for Marry Me: Progress Report, May edition! This is our monthly series (first Wednesday of every month) where I'll be answering the same 10 questions to keep track of how the experiment is going. If you haven't already, have a listen to the previous Progress Report episodes to keep up.Spoiler alert: He's gotta be Black! Week 37 of 52, complete!Thanks for listening! xHost &
36. The One Where The Pollen Lurgies Won
I'm sick. I'm sorry. I'll be back with you next week though.Pray for me... in tongues if you can.Thanking you in advance! Spoiler alert: Stock up on your antihistamines and Loranzepang!Week 36 of 52, complete!Thanks for listening! xHost & Producer: Daisy ChakooOriginal Music: Daisy ChakooInstagram: @DaisyChakooA Mantaa Media Production ©Patreon- patreon.com/DaisyChakooYouTube- https:/
35. Pseudo-Intimacy is the New Black
Are you finding it hard to juggle dating multiple people? Is it hard to remember who is the taurus and who is the pisces? Do you find it hard to manage your attachments to all your Feeld dates? Well... I don't have the solution for you, soz, but let's chat and commiserate about it all. Spoiler alert: Mnemonic devices are the way forward. Week 35 of 52, complete!Thanks for listening! xHost
34. TEST DRIVE THE MERCEDES BEFORE MARRIAGE!
This week we are talking all things SEGGS (I'm writing it the TikTok way cause... the algorithm?! lol)Should you get on the boat and experience the motion of the ocean while putting on lotion before locking it down? Do you believe in soul ties? Does it affect building a sturdy foundation? We discuss all this and more in this episode.Spoiler alert: I'm the new appointed Chief Ambassador of
33. Would You Rather Marry a Bear or a Man.... In The Woods?
Everyone's talking about women and men and bears in the woods so I thought I'd do the same but unpack what that means when you still wanna lay in a bed with a man at the end of the day.Like, is it safer to marry a bear or a man? Like, really? Spoiler alert: The bear 🐻 no chef. Week 33 of 52, complete!Thanks for listening! xHost & Producer: Daisy ChakooOriginal Music: Daisy ChakooInsta
32. Q1 was a doozy
January, February and March were months in the year of our Lord 2025 and I dated and #GROWTHed and learned a lot in those months... so we discuss all of that in this episode... enjoyyyyy! Spoiler alert: boring men are NOT my portion... ITNOJ!!! 🙏🏾Week 32 of 52, complete!Thanks for listening! xHost & Producer: Daisy ChakooOriginal Music: Daisy ChakooInstagram: @DaisyChakooA Mantaa Medi
31. Marry Me: Progress Report- April
It's time for Marry Me: Progress Report, April edition! This is our monthly series (first Wednesday of every month) where I'll be answering the same 10 questions to keep track of how the experiment is going. If you haven't already, have a listen to the previous Progress Report episodes to keep up.Spoiler alert: Ovulation is not only a tool for procreation, it can also be an enemy of pro
30. "And Just Like That, They Lost Me"
Nicki said... "Let's go to the beach beach"... so I did! This episode was recorded live at the beach, while I had an out-of-body, existential, transcendental experience!Spoiler alert: I like the beach.Week 30 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! xHost & Producer: Daisy Chakoo Original Music: Daisy ChakooInstagram: @DaisyChakooA Mantaa Media Production ©Fisayo's blog entry- https://u
29. The Dangers of Being Single- Part 2
Want it to feel like spooky szn all year round? Well... be single lol.Here's part 2 to the dangers of being single.Spoiler alert: it's bad but it's not that bad after all. Week 29 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! xHost & Producer: Daisy Chakoo Original Music: Daisy ChakooInstagram: @DaisyChakooA Mantaa Media Production ©Patreon- patreon.com/DaisyChakooYouTube- https://youtube.co
28. The Dangers of Being Single- Part 1
It's been scientifically proven* that being single is the absolute most dangerous thing any person can willingly be... especially when actively out here in these streets!So today we discuss the top things one should be aware of as a single pringle, ready to mingle!Get your notepad and pen ready cause I'm spitting gems... as a veteran and longtime survivor! Part 2 out next week :) *it hasn
27. Marry Me: Progress Report- March
It's time for Marry Me: Progress Report, March edition! This is our monthly series (first Wednesday of every month) where I'll be answering the same 10 questions to keep track of how the experiment is going. If you haven't already, have a listen to the previous Progress Report episodes to keep up.Spoiler alert: I HAVE A HARRY GOLDENBLATT FETISH AND I'M NOT AFRAID TO SAY IT! Week 27 of 5
26. The One Where Y'all Ask Me Anything
🎉 HAPPY 6 MONTH-A-VERSARY TO THE PODCAST 🎉Can you believe it? We're halfway through the experiment!Mad ting!So... to celebrate, I gave you all the opportunity to ask me anything and I promised to answer every question honestly... so that is what we did!Spoiler alert: I think I'm gay? Am I gay? Like for real, is this me coming out?Week 26 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! xHost &
25. So... I Did Not Get Land in Pakistan on Valentine's Day
CALL ME ELIZA THORNBERRY COZ WE ARE IN THE WILD PEOPLE!Today's episode was recorded on my evening stroll and you know what... I kinda dig it (minus the occasional drilling... sowwie).I go into how my Valentine's went and by the title... I'm sure you can guess... it was... GR8! lolSpoiler alert: It was not GR8! Week 25 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! xHost & Producer: Daisy Chak
24. Valentines is Coming... So Gimmie Land in Pakistan
<3 IT'S VALENTINES WEEK BABY <3And I'm gon' get me some flowers and some laaaand. I also talk about how... I think... I'm ready... to fall in love...?Who am I?!Spoiler alert: I'm sick.Week 24 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! xHost & Producer: Daisy Chakoo Original Music: Daisy ChakooInstagram: @DaisyChakooA Mantaa Media Production ©patreon.com/DaisyChakooLinks as promised:
23. Marry Me: Progress Report- February
It's time for Marry Me: Progress Report, February edition! This is our monthly series (first Wednesday of every month) where I'll be answering the same 10 questions to keep track of how the experiment is going. If you haven't already, have a listen to the previous Progress Report episodes to keep up.Spoiler alert: I finally went on a date... like gurrrrrl... about mf'in time! Spoiler sp
22. Ok ok ok... let's start over
THE DAY HAS FINALLY COME... 🥳 THE PATREON IS LIVE 🥳Ah, this is exciting times guys. I'm so beyond happy and excited for us to connect more and build our lil communityyyyy ah!And friends, I'mma make it worth you whipping out your Revolut cards.What to expect:- Weekly vlogs- Marry Me in the City- Marry Me Therapy - AND... A chance to win liquid cash every month (exclusive to Patreon members
21. Introducing: MARRY ME THERAPY
Okay, so we're switching things up cause my mother always told me that if I'm feeling stuck and need help... I should reach out and help others and that is exactly what I'm doing, mama.So... welcome to MARRY ME THERAPY! The episodes where I will be answering your dilemmas... shock horror, another podcast answering dilemmas.If you want to take part in this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, s
20. Call Me By Your (Unicorn) Name
I'm out here in these FEELD's of gold y'all... aka... I've been on the Feeld app and I'm here to tell you all about it.Spoiler alert: FEELD, stop playing... let's work together... for real... let's chat... email me marrymepod@gmail.com... c'mon now... you know you wanna.... love you.Week 20 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! xHost & Producer: Daisy Chakoo Original Music: Daisy Cha
19. Marry Me: Progress Report- January
It's Marry Me: Progress Report time baby! This is our monthly series (first Wednesday of every month) where I'll be answering the same 10 questions to keep track of how the experiment is going. If you haven't already, have a listen to the November (EP10) and December (EP14) episodes to keep up with the progress.Spoiler alert: "Marry Me" might turn into "Marry Me into an already existing
18. The One Where There Isn't One
Apologies my loves, there is no episode this week. 2024 said "bish, you shall sit down, suffer but ultimately rest" and that is what I am doing after dealing with a gruesome chest infection.But we'll be back next week, badder than ever. In the meantime, I hope you're all doing well and I wish you a HAPPY NEW YEAR.Spoiler alert: I am Phoebe, reincarnated. Week 18 of 52, complete! Thanks fo
17. A Year in Dating: 10 Highlights and Lessons- Part 2
AaaaaaAAaaaaahhhHHHhhh! This is the final episode of the year. Mad ting. Thank you to everyone who's been rocking with the podcast. I look forward to cranking up the fire next year and sharing it all with you.Future husband... I'm readyyyyyyy! heheOh, and this is part 2 of my look back at the top 10 moments from my dating adventures this year. If you missed part 1 last week, be sure to ch
16. A Year in Dating: 10 Highlights and Lessons- Part 1
As the year winds down, I’m taking a look back at the top 10 moments from my dating adventures this year. In this two-part series, I’ll share the first half of the list this week, with the rest coming your way next week.Spoiler alert: Kane... I miss yoooou, I mis ya smile. And I still shed a tear, every once in a whiiiiiile. And that's on hannah from montana. Week 16 of 52, complete! Than
15. Marry Me in the City: Breaking Down SATC’s Iconic Relationships- Part 2 (ft. Penelope)
We're back at it again with another CARRIE BRADSHAW HATERATION EPISODE... I mean... Another Marry Me in the City episode, hehe. These are the episodes where we use the iconic Sex and the City TV show as a springboard to explore modern themes of love, sex, relationships, and dating.This week, we are joined by our illustrious guest, Penelope, my lil sister, to discuss and rate three relatio
14. Marry Me: Progress Report- December
Get your clipboards out coz it's Marry Me: Progress Report time! This is our monthly series (first Wednesday of every month) where I'll be answering the same 10 questions to keep track of how the experiment is going. If you haven't already, have a listen to the November edition (EP10) as well, to check out the similarities and differences in my answers (and the goals that I did NOT achi
13. all my single ladies, unite
Let's take a moment to pay respect to the single life that we will one day say goodbye to. Spoiler alert: I love being single more than I knew.Week 13 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! xHost & Producer: Daisy Chakoo Original Music: Daisy ChakooInstagram: @DaisyChakooA Mantaa Media Production ©
12. um, i've entered my cougar era
I've missed you guys and was craving a cosy sit-down-catch-up aka a parasocial therapy session with y'all so... that's what this episode is.We talk about my new maaaaaan (I'm in my cougar era), the very big goal I have achieved this year (inspired by Glorilla) and an update to the podcast. Spoiler alert: I've found the Skipper to my Miranda.Week 12 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! x
11. Marry Me in the City: Breaking Down SATC’s Iconic Relationships- Part 1 (ft. Penelope)
WELCOME TO YOUR FIRST EVER "MARRY ME IN THE CITY" EPISODE!This is the latest feature to the Marry Me podcast where once a month, we'll be using the iconic Sex and the City TV show as a springboard to explore modern themes of love, sex, relationships, and dating.This week, we are joined once again by Penelope, my lil sister, to discuss and rate three notable relationships in the show:1. Sa
10. Marry Me: Progress Report- November
This is the first of our new monthly series (first Wednesday of every month) where I'll be answering the same 10 questions to gauge how the experiment is going. And guys... THIS is my favourite episode so far. There, I said. You got me. I've picked my favourite child hehe. But it was super fun to reflect and get inspired and motivated. Spoiler alert: "visualisation" is mentioned approxi
9. iyt, my friends and family gimmie advice- part 2
Right, this is final part of the "friends and family giving me dating advice aka friends and family collectively telling me to just relax and breathe and have fun and enjoy the process and not waste time on losers and just be patient but also be specific and not take your eye off the ball and journal and go to the party coz Harry Goldenblatt will arrive at some point and... just have fun"
8. iyt, my friends and family gimmie advice- part 1
Have you ever had the closest people in your life give you some hard hitting dating advice? Well I have, in this very episode.Spoiler alert: Ouch, this low-key felt like an intervention. Part 2 will be released next week. Week 8 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! xHost & Producer: Daisy Chakoo Original Music: Daisy ChakooInstagram: @DaisyChakooA Mantaa Media Production ©
7. right, let’s plan my wedding (that i don’t want)
Plan my future wedding with me. Spoiler alert: Mi nuh want 1. Week 7 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! xHost & Producer: Daisy Chakoo Original Music: Daisy ChakooInstagram: @DaisyChakooA Mantaa Media Production ©
6. wait, the weight of the wait is weighing on me
To wait (patiently) or not to wait (and have a "special friend" who comes over at night and provides body heat from time-to-time)... is the question.This week we have a proper cute and cosy catch up and discuss whether there's an ideal modus operandi ;) whilst you wait for your person.Spoiler alert: I don't fuqin know, but it is cuffing szn and one need hugs so... Week 6 of 52, complete!
5. but, am I even ready for a ring? (buzzfeed has the answers)
The internet aka Karen from Buzzfeed, Tamsen and Pia, tell me whether I'm ready for marriage.Spoiler alert: well, there isn't one this week, listen to the episode and find out boo. LOVE YA!Quiz Links:Buzzfeed Quiz- https://www.buzzfeed.com/kellymartinez/are-you-ready-for-marriageTamsen Butler B.SC (Psych) Quiz-https://www.lovetoknow.com/life/lifestyle/am-i-ready-get-married-quizBride &
4. ok, let's design my dream man (spoiler alert: it's Adam Driver)
The energy is different this week guys! We're hopeful, we're excited and we're WET (from SWEAT!)This week, I piece together my dream man using different physical features and attributes of sexy famous people.Spoiler alert: I'm very passionate about Adam Driver's torso. Hope you didn't sweat through your clothes as much as I did! Week 4 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! xHost & Pr
3. welp, i'm throwing this all in the trash
Gurrrrl, I'm tyty and I'm over it and I wanna nap and I don't wanna sit across from a stranger in a restaurant in the near future and talk about our favourite colours and then split the bill. Yuck! BUT... I do wanna get married. So, we gotta figure something out!And that's what we're trying to do in this episode.If you have any advice or just wanna commiserate, DM me @MarryMePod or email
2. so, my lil sister builds-a-husband for me (ft. Penelope)
This week I am joined by my lil baby sister to explore many things including how similar we are in love (spoiler alert: not at all), how we'll feel at each other's weddings and she also "builds-a-husband" for me and makes him very tall. I hope you enjooooy! P.S. apologies for the not-so-gr8 audio quality. it pains my heart but will (try to) do better next time xP.P.S enjoy the blooperz a
1. wait, marry who? marry how?
So, I’ve decided I wanna find a husband, but how does one do such a thing?In this episode, I put together a PLAN PLAN PLAN to find me a husband husband husband. And yes, I will be enlisting help from some unlikely places (any auntie’s out there that can offer me a good Ugandan man? )If you have any good ideas to add to this POA, please send them over to marrymepod@gmail.com This is a team
0. hey, i'm getting married (kinda)
Heyyyy friends and welcome to my brand new podcast!!! This is a year-long experiment to see if I, Daisy Chakoo, can find a husband, whilst also figuring out what this whole marriage and partnership thing means in the modern age.Episodes will drop every Wednesday until Wednesday 3rd September 2025. Looking forward to running this experiment with you all. Thanks for listening! xHost & P
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